THIS IS A DECISION THAT IS BY FAR BETTER TO BE MADE NOW.
IT GOVERNS THE REST OF MY LIFE.
How great a life is "good enough" ?
Is setting it up so I am striving and worrying and stressed something I will allow? Will I allow it to be run by fear (see Fears, Mistakes, Death)? Trying to control things I cannot control (see Live8020)?
This is a decision I must make as soon as possible, for it will affect the quality of my life for the rest of my life. Use "The Carpenter's Rule": "Measure twice, cut once."
Shall I live a life to be a "success" by some standard of my own? Where I am compromising myself in order to have others look favorably upon me or approve of me?
Or shall I just go for a life where I get done what I need to get done and then I enrich my life constantly and fill it with great experiences? Maybe one where I give love, in acceptance and kindness and support, freely from a base of having taken care of all my needs myself?
Although this site has questions and answers in the various areas of life, such as health, well-being, relationships, etc., it is designed to answer a few of the bigger questions. Those bigger questions will then be supported by the "how to's" and "what to do's" so you can complete the circle - so you'll be with those who are successful in life and not just hanging around with the philosophers...
How Do I Sustain Growth/Happiness?